Hey, Mama
Hey, BAE’s!
Happy (belated) Mother’s Day to all the mama’s out there, to your mama, grandma, and you if you are a mom (or will be one in the future – yay!).
Relationships with mom’s are something else. I’m not even going to lie. God will use mom’s to tell you the good, bad and the ugly. And it’s a huge thing to protect your heart from frustration and bitterness if we aren’t intentional about guarding our hearts.
And you may be thinking... Jo isn’t this a Mother’s Day post? Yes! I love my mom. And she and I have learned lots in the last few years as our dynamic has evolved into an adult mother-daughter relationship. It’s tough in transition, but here are 3 things that helped us navigate through those times.
Spend quality time
It’s a spiritual discipline to be in fellowship. It’s also a love language. It’s also the perfect place for you and your mom to understand each other. Try a class together, do something you’re both good at, or even grab some dinner!
Seek to understand
You and your mom are on the same side. You want what’s best for you. You want to show each other you love one another, but sometimes the way it is communicated can come off different.
Ask God to give you the grace and patience to seek understanding for one another. Welcome the Holy Spirit to take over your heart above any offense, frustration, or anger when moments with your mom get tough.
Say “thank you” and “I love you”
You really can’t say it enough. And I don’t think it’ll ever come to a point where your mom will be like “why are you saying this so much?”
Our moms have sacrificed and provided so much more than we could ever match in this lifetime. So find the things to be thankful for, find moments to let her know you love her.
It is our prayer that these tips help you cultivate your relationship with your mom!
As always, if you need a prayer, to talk, we are here! Feel free to message us on instagram @baecollective.sd
Xx,
Jo